On Engaging the Elderly

Connecting with and motivating the elderly is possible through a process called empathic engagement..This approach looks at the causes of apathy and non-participation. With an understanding of the aging process and the conditions which often accompany aging we may know how the prospective participant might feel about taking part in activities especially something new. For the memory impaired any activity may seem like having to learn something new! It is much easier to just say “No” then to risk failure, frustration, pain or simply the unknown. Empathic Engagement is a concept in which the teacher or leader feels or knows what another is feeling and reacts appropriately to produce the desired result. In the case of the elderly person who might be apprehensive all effort must be made to make him or her feel safe, non-threatened and loved. Interestingly this empathy goes both ways. That is to say, the participant often will absorb the leader’s attitude and reflect it back. For example when the leader emits a warm, friendly or joyful feeling the group will often “catch” these feelings and mirror them. It is true that a smile is contagious.

In future postings I will be discussing some techniques used  to build the trust that allows this population to be willing to follow your lead. 

Have a great day!

Sheila

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